Personally, I hope Oregon will pass a law or update our assisted suicide law to include dementia. Or save money to head to Switzerland before I am totally incompetent and chose assisted suicide overseas.
At this point my plan is to save enough to cover any eldercare that we will need. It’s a lot of money, for sure. We are starting to get an idea of what long term care for alzheimers will cost since a family member has started to use services. Thankfully they have been paying into long term care insurance for many years.