[Holly]

I am a full time student so money is very tight but I want to get her something from him.

I haven’t gotten a chance to know her super well yet so I don’t have any ideas…

[Sheila]

I was actually the step mom, but purchased my step children’s mom her favorite plant/bush/tree for Mother’s Day. So they could plant it together in her yard and enjoy it for years to come. She loved lilacs. So I purchased a lilac bush. With a card.

She loved it.

[Kimberly]

Let his Dad get the step mom something from him. I don’t think it’s your place.

[Lynn]

Do you have any pictures of your son with his dad in a frame he made. You’re doing a great job raising your son. Happy Mother’s day.

[Bridget]

Have your son write a note and bake something small for her. As a step mom anything we get will be charished. Trust me. Also include a note from you saying how greatful you are that she is now a part of the family. (even if you aren’t sure yet)

[Sheryl]

First of all, you are an amazing mom. He will remember things like this when he is older. Maybe a sweet little trinket for her desk, or a coffee cup that has a pretty poem or verse.

[Trish]

All great and loving suggestions I am so happy that your are going into this with a sweet supportive attitude.

You may have a very long time together your kind attitudes will make a sometimes hard Situation so much better for you and her and most importantly your son I commend you.

[Lisa]

Homemade chocolate brownies and a single rose. Have him make a special card for her. A little note from you, thank her for accepting your son and her willingness to actively engage with him.

[Trish]

What a amazing woman you are ❤️ My step mother was all about herself and her kids leaving me and my brother out… her kids had a amazing childhood filled with vacations, lavish holidays on my fathers dime.

[Jessica]

That is so sweet of you!!! How wonderful you are this thoughtful, I’m sure your son and ex appreciate it. Anything homemade will do the trick. Photo collage, a letter from either of you, an art project, etc.

[Stephanie]

If your son seems to like her, maybe a card with a nice note thanking her for loving your son & being good to him. Pair it with pretty bouquet from your local grocery store.

[Margaret]

A home made card from your son would be lovely. They’re so nice and thoughtful compared to the shop bought cards. Maybe a bunch of flowers or bake some cookies. Your son is only 11 so his Stepmom shouldn’t expect much from a child. I would like to say that this is extremely thoughtful of you that you want your son to have a good relationship with his Stepmom. Good luck xx

[Peggy]

Think that is so thoughtful of you! Your son will be a remarkable young man having a mom like you showing him such love for others!

[Cynthia]

That is very kind of you.

As a step-mom, I would say a nice card with a heartfelt message would be appreciated.
I remember when my boys’ mom told me she couldn’t imagine a better stepmom for her sons. It meant a lot. You may not know her well enough yet, but say whatever is true for you. Happy Mother’s Day

[Erin]

He can make her card & buy a small succulent. She’ll love it. Thank you for doing this. I am a stepmother and I would really have appreciated it if my stepson‘s mother did this for him, for me.

[Renee]

Can I just say, I really admire you for wanting to get her something. I know too many people who barely attempt to get know the step parent at all, let alone get them something for mother’s/father’s day.

Flowers are always nice, but a small succulent that will live more than a few days might be more meaningful without spending too much.

[Debbie]

For someone you don’t know well, flower bouquet. It shows you thought of her but she doesn’t have to take care of it like a live thing, it’s not a trinket she doesn’t like, if she doesn’t like it she can just toss it instead of keep it out of guilt. Flowers are neutral. Put them in nice glass.

[Sandra]

Maybe give the gift of asking her questions about herself, her childhood, the work she did, her most happiest time in her life, What did she do with the kids to keep them busy, did she read to them, was she affectionate and did she play games with them? Listening to her stories and about who she is, you may find both of you have received gifts.

[Misty]

I’m a step mom. I loved when my stepson made me things, picked me my favorite flowers, wrote me little “love” notes. He made me feel like I was just as special as his bio mom. It was a huge deal to me. It deepened our connection, and we became very close. Consider asking him to write down his favorite things he likes about his stepmom, and maybe make her a coupon book for free services.

She would more than likely appreciate a homemade card — with her favorite things drawn or colored, stickers, images off the internet, etc.

Just a thought. It’s so kind of you to want to include her.

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